Selfish and Serving

It’s human nature to be selfish and self-centered. However, there is also an innate drive to make a positive difference in other peoples’ lives. We want to make a difference. We want to leave a lasting impression on the world for the better. These two drives are continually motivating our behavior. We continually feel pulled in opposite directions at the same time. Sometimes we choose to do what we believe will be better for another person. Other times, we do what we want to do with no consideration for anyone else. The key to excellent behavior then, is the ability to discern when we need to be mindful of others and when it’s okay to indulge in the occasional selfish desire.